Just shut the fsck up.
I was quite disturbed by the attitude of a lot of posts in a forum, and there was a lot of linkage around...
http://www.oneeyedcrow.net/securitygeekfemme.html
http://www.tldp.org/HOWTO/Encourage-Women-Linux-HOWTO/index.html
I'm fed up with the attitude from a lot of people in this "buisness". Take a breath and smell the sweat.